MORE
ON
S¥X...
In
my humble opinion, relationship and s¥x needs to
be more addressed and taught blatantly. This is the
age where "everything is right in the eyes of a
man"; from p@rnography to gay radar. s¥x is
everywhere, TV, schools, homes, work places and even
churches. The days of guessing and hoping is over. "Boy
must meet girl," but if they are taught properly
with given reservation and bearing in mind innocents,
then half the unexpected pregnancies, abortions, intimate
feuds and other serious disasters can be cutback.
What
we have got thus far is the textbook teaching. I would
love to see mature women of our congregations, rest
their "never-done-that-attitudes, get down to earth
with our young girls and say, "sister I went through
fornication and abortion coupled with pain, shame, suffering
and disgrace, it ain't worth it and who knows if you'd
get a chance like me to repent!" I'm almost certain
that sister would think twice about s¥xual endeavors
after such a conversation.
Brothers need to stop bragging about their s¥xual
conquests while unsaved. This usually fosters doubt
and insecurity in faithful brothers who are virgins.
If these brothers even know what they had done, they
would be quiet. One ugly spin-off from this, I heard,
is a belief in the "taste before buy theory."
That is, you must have s¥x with the partner before
marriage to see if you're compatible. Utter Garbage!
It must be stopped and I rebuke it totally. Sisters
beware of such monsters!
Let
me explain a little about fornication beside the sure
fact that an ardent fornicator WILL reside in
hell's fire. s¥x is one of the main vehicles for
demonic transportation. In other words, when you have
s¥x with a prostitute or anyone, the evil spirits
within that person are transmitted to you; much like
spiritual HIV - no protection against this one but abstinence.
This is the reason some satanic churches position a
naked woman at their altars for members to s¥x her,
even more than once; and members have s¥x amongst
themselves openly and freely during their ungodly service.
This is used to transmit demons; unaware to most members
and especially the new convert. The same thing happens
to any perfectly normal couple that dares to cross the
line.
Secondly,
there are two things God's bind himself to honor, that
is, consummation (s¥x) and marriage. In the 'Bible
day' one wasn't really married unless the marriage was
consummated. In essence, consummation is what really
seals a marriage and bonds God to his word. Now, any
time you have decided to consummate (have s¥x) you
have bonded yourself to that partner for life. A piece
of that person's spirit is still with you. That is why
Paul said, "Know ye not that he which is joined
to an harlot is one body? For two, saith he, shall be
one flesh" (1 Cor 6:16). This clearly spoke of
s¥xual activity and not the normal notion of marriage.
In other words, there is NO such thing as "pre-marital
s¥x." You have s¥x, you have a lifetime
soul partner. The implications are terrifying. Suppose
a former 'playboy' decides to get married to a nice
young sister, being unregenerated. What he will do is
carry all the demons and fraction of souls from many
pass acquaintances, that marriage is bound to fail, if God
doesn't allow it. They are even far more serious implications.
Watch it! In my opinion, it's just not worth it! "Bragging
Brothers" heed to 1 Corinthian 5:2, "And ye
are puffed up, and have not rather mourned."