We are
living in a time of moral confusion, and our generation's
immorality is reflected in many of today's styles. Today's
fashion industry has little regard for modesty, and its
products often project a look that is inappropriate for
someone who wants to mirror Christ.
The
marvelous grace of God in our hearts compels us to reflect
His holiness in the part of our being that other people
see. When a person becomes a Christian, his experience changes
every facet his life-not just the inward person but the
outward person as well.
A Biblical
Principles
The
Bible instructs us to wear modest clothing, that is, clothing
with a godly appearance. Of course, our outward appearance
cannot substitute for inward holiness. Adam and Eve covered
themselves with fig leaves after they sinned, but God found
their efforts inadequate. By making clothing of animal skins
for them, He confirmed that they indeed needed modest clothing,
but He also revealed that holiness in appearance must be
associated with God's provision for our sins. Only by the
death of Jesus Christ, the Lamb of God, do we obtain the
righteousness of God that we seek to reflect outwardly.
God
instructed Israel's high priest to wear "holy garments,"
for he represented a holy God (Exodus 28:2). God also ordered
the priests to wear clothing that covered their nakedness
and forbad elevated altars upon which priests would walk
and thereby expose their nakedness (Exodus 20:26; 28:42).
Deuteronomy
22:5 enunciates the moral principle of a clear distinction
between male and female in outward appearance: one s¥x
must not wear styles of clothing associated with the other.
Proverbs
7:10 speaks of a woman with "the attire associated with
sin and are not suitable for godly people to wear.
The
principle that God wants His people to reflect His holiness
applies to the New Testament church (I Peter 1:15-16). We
are called to be living epistles read of all people, declaring
to the world God's holy nature and His abiding presence
(II Corinthians 3:3). Our outward appearance is one way
in which we are an unspoken witness of the transforming
power of Christ.
I Timothy
2:9 admonishes "that women adorn themselves in modest apparel,
with shamedfacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair,
or gold, or pearls, or costly array." I Peter 3:3 gives
similar instructions.
I Corinthians
11:1-16 teaches that a woman should have long hair, for
it is her glory, and that a man should not have long hair.
A person's hair serves as an important visible symbol of
his or her submission to God's plan of authority and as
a distinguishing mark between the s¥xes.
Revelation
16:15 uses clothing as a symbol to instruct the church to
stay close to God: "Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth
his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame."
Clearly,
God puts emphasis on the outward appearance of a person.
To an extent, clothing reflects the condition of the heart,
and it sends message to others about a person's values.
A Response
to God's Grace
Advocating
modesty of dress and outward dedication does not mean advocating
salvation by works. Wearing godly dress is not a meritorious
work to earn salvation; rather, it is a response to the
saving grace of God. The blood of Jesus is our only righteousness.
Our salvation comes from God, never from our good works.
To think that we could earn His marvelous grace by adhering
to dress codes would be a terrible mistake.
But
to accept the grace of God and then be indifferent to Christ's
commandment for holy living would discredit His mercy. If
the church preaches Christ and His saving grace without
teaching biblical guidelines to live by, it leaves people
open to confusion and failure. Deliberate and continuous
disobedience to God's Word will lead to the loss of saving
faith.
Who
can view the Cross without wanting to conform to Christ?
Who would want to continue his or her old sinful patterns
of living when Jesus Christ died to bring deliverance from
those sins? When people comprehend His holiness, they desire
to become holy. While it is true that genuine love for Him
restrains a person from presuming upon His marvelous grace.
In
our success-oriented society, no one considers it odd if
a corporation requires its employees to conform to a dress
code. Why then should a church that teaches neatness and
modesty for the purpose of honoring the holiness of God
be considered narrow, restrictive, or legalistic?
If
we are to honor God in our hearts, it is consistent to honor
Him with an outward dedication. I John 2:15 instructs us,
"Love not the world", surely, then, we would be foolish
to mirror worldly values in our appearance.
The
Protection of Modesty
Adhering
to a modest, godly standard of dress and conduct offers
protection from the surge of immorality that plagues our
generation. Clothes and appearance transmit nonverbal signals.
Christians who verbalize goodness and godliness but at the
same time non verbally declare sensuality and ungodliness
destroy the effectiveness of their gospel witness.
The
primary purpose of many fashion designs is to exalt the
ego, attract undue attention to the flesh, stir desires,
and ignite passion in others, thereby appealing to the lust,
of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life,
which the Bible condemns (I John 2:16). If we are in such
styles and with such motives.
We
must not naively ignore the complex causes of immorality
and marital infidelity, but neither should we ignore the
influence that sensual dress has on adultery and fornication.
If a man looks with lust upon a women he commits adultery
in his heart (Matthew 5:28). If people would dress in ways
that do not provoke lust, the moral fiber of our society
would be strengthened.
The
danger of overemphasizing any discipline in the Christian
life is that some people allow the discipline to become
a legalistic code. Some people who harbor unholy attitudes
such as hatred, bitterness, envy, and strife falsely think
they are spiritual because they wear modest clothes.
Such
distortions are hypocritical and wrong. But we cannot dismiss
the need for modesty in dress because some distort it. The
biblical alternative to legalism is not permissiveness or
license but self-discipline motivated by grace, faith, love,
the Word of God, and the Holy Spirit. (See John 14:15; I
Corinthians 9:24-27; II Timothy 2:4-5; I John 2:3-6.)
For
the sake of our children, we must teach them to respect
the holiness of God in all areas of life. Allowing or encouraging
preteens and teenagers to dress in many of today's fashions
is an invitation to social and spiritual problems.
A dress
code will not automatically remedy the decaying moral fiber
among youth, but it does remind them of God's commandments.
We must begin somewhere to teach children and youth moral
responsibility, and standards of modesty in dress offer
us this opportunity.
When
we honor God and His Word in our hearts and in our outward
appearance, He places an umbrella of protection over our
families. While moral decay sweeps modern society and many
modern churches, we are able to remain relatively untouched.
The world may scoff at our modesty, but we dare not lay
down our cloak of protection and our obedience to the Word
of God.
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